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2018 Highlights

2018 has been my favourite year since becoming a mum and recovering from postnatal depression, anxiety & OCD five and a half years ago.  I feel the strongest and happiest I’ve ever felt since that…

Posted in Advocacy, Anxiety, Motherhood, Peer Support, Recovery 0 comments December 27, 2018December 10, 2018 by Laura

Blogging Anniversary: Three Years Of The Butterfly Mother

I often wonder what I’d be doing with my time if I’d never suffered from PND and begun this blog.  Would I have found another hobby to fill my time and help me establish my…

Posted in About me, Blogging, Learning, Motherhood 12 Comments April 8, 2018 by Laura

2017 Highlights

Similar to last year, 2017 has been another mixed bag year for me.  It seems they all are these days to be honest and that’s okay; life is full of ups and downs and if…

Posted in #12DaysOfParenting, Advocacy, Anxiety, Brand/Sponsored, Giveaways, Holidays/days out, Lifestyle, Motherhood, Peer Support, Recovery, Self-care 0 comments December 24, 2017December 3, 2018 by Laura

The Mixed-up Identity Of Modern Mums

I wrote this post back in 2015 about how our identities change when we become parents and how this can been an unsettling and sometimes shocking experience. I’ll never know how much of the emotional difficulty…

Posted in Anxiety, Learning, Lifestyle, Motherhood 8 Comments October 18, 2017October 27, 2017 by Laura

Champagne & Tissues

A few weeks ago my son came home from nursery with a graduation certificate.  Pre-parenthood we may have scoffed at such a silly thing but the mother in me completely welled up. Confused, he asked me…

Posted in Anxiety, Birth & Miscarriage, Learning, Motherhood, Relationships 14 Comments August 3, 2017August 4, 2017 by Laura

Two Years Of Blogging (& Why I Love It)

When I wrote this post just over a year ago I hoped The Butterfly Mother would still be going strong but I wasn’t completely certain.  For those who don’t know, this blog began life as…

Posted in About me, Blogging, Learning, Motherhood 18 Comments June 21, 2017July 3, 2017 by Laura

Am I Sick Or Sad? Managing Emotions After PND

I’ve been sad a lot lately.  Life has thrown us a few curve balls this year and 2016 hasn’t been quite what I hoped for or expected.  It’s hard when life doesn’t go your way…

Posted in Anxiety, Depression, Peer Support, Recovery 3 Comments November 9, 2016February 20, 2018 by Laura

Honest Mums vs. Perfect Mums

Being a big fan of trashy reality shows, and a fellow resident of Essex, I was very excited to watch ex-TOWIE star Sam Faiers in The Mummy Diaries last week. In an interview, Sam had…

Posted in Motherhood, Peer Support, Reviews 51 Comments October 19, 2016October 28, 2016 by Laura

Five Ways To Feel More Happy

I should start with a disclaimer.  I am by no means an endlessly sunny, positive person with beams of joy shining out of my face.  In fact, people who know me in real life may…

Posted in Anxiety, Blogging, Depression, Recovery, Relationships 37 Comments September 28, 2016October 13, 2016 by Laura

The Benefits of Baby & Toddler Classes

One of the most difficult things about being a new mum is the loneliness and isolation.  For me, it was totally unanticipated.  I had several friends with babies and lots of family nearby so I…

Posted in Caterpillar Corner, Holidays/days out, Motherhood, Relationships, Reviews 32 Comments September 16, 2016September 23, 2016 by Laura

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I'm a PND & Anxiety survivor and self-confessed "good enough" mum to two hilarious & challenging kids aged 10 & 4. Here you can find lots of Anxiety Management techniques as well as tips & self-care ideas for keeping mentally and emotionally well as a parent.

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