I’m reviewing another picture book for this week’s Butterfly Book Club but this one is a little different – and incredibly special. On the surface, A Monster Ate My Mum seems like a fairly ordinary story about a young boy’s encounters with monsters, however in reality this book is written as a creative and sensitive tool to teach children how to cope when one of their parents is suffering from depression.
I first heard of Jen Faulkner’s book two years ago when I was in the grip of Postnatal Depression and thought the idea was brilliant. Back then, I couldn’t even contemplate a time where I would consider having another child so, although impressed with the concept, I couldn’t see that this was something I would ever be in need of. Now that I’m hoping for another baby, and subsequently running the risk of experiencing PND again – this time with my older, more emotionally aware son around – this fantastic book could become very important to me personally.
The story began life as a poem Jen wrote on her blog and has now been transformed into this beautifully illustrated book. The narrative follows a young boy (he is never named which I like because it makes the protagonist applicable to anyone) who is desperately searching for his mum. She seems so lost and sad lately and he believes a monster must have eaten her. He meets several monsters along the way who confess to each taking something from her (her smile, her spark and so on) until he finds solace in a friendly monster who explains why the boy’s mum is feeling the way she is and what the boy can do to help her feel better.
What I love most about this poem is the way it explains symptoms of depressions in such a direct, straightforward way which makes it really simple for very young children to grasp, and also that it makes such a clear point about how the way this boy’s mum is feeling and acting is absolutely nobody’s fault. I’d imagine some young children would worry that they had done something to make their parent feel the way they do and this book goes a long way to debunk that idea.
It is a sad and poignant story, of course, and the lovely illustrations of the mum are a little haunting, especially if you’ve struggled with PND yourself, but there is also a lot of hope here. The friendly monster at the end explains to the boy that with kisses, cuddles, time and patience he will get his fun, happy mother back.
As Jen says herself on her blog, there are picture books to explain almost every topic to children now – from potty training to bereavement – but I don’t know of any others which deal with this topic in such a direct and relateable way. A really useful tool for explaining mental illness to young children.
You can buy your copy here, or to find out more about Jen please take a look at her blog, Instinctive Mum.
35 comments on “Book Review: A Monster Ate My Mum by Jen Faulkner”
Awww that looks like a fantastic book #sundaystars
It’s such a lovely idea for anyone struggling with PND or depression in general. Thanks for reading x
What a lovely way of approaching the topic – and that cover illustration is brill too! x #KCACOLS
It’s really beautiful, isn’t it? Thanks for commenting x
Sounds like a really great book, one to keep an eye out for #KCACOLS
It’s very unique and a useful tool for anyone in that situation. Thanks for reading x
This sounds like an amazing book and a great review Hun. Will have to look this up.#KLTR #anythinggoes
This sounds like a really useful book to help a child cope with a difficult situation. Thanks for the review.
It is really sensitive and helpful, thanks for commenting x
I remember when A Monster Ate My Mum came out and I thought it sounded like a fantastic idea. It sounds like a brilliant book for kids. Here’s hoping you never need it, but it’s reassuring to know it’s there if you do!
Thanks for your kind words. It’s such a great idea x
That’s a really useful book for certain circumstances. Brilliant that such a resource exists.
I agree 🙂 Thanks for reading and commenting x
Oh wow, I love the subject matter used as it is so common these days, very cleverly done. Thanks for sharing with #ReadWithMe
It is really well done and such an important topic. Thanks for commenting x
this sounds like such an important book. I think it’s great that there are publishers and authors willing to tackle such difficult subjects for a young audience x
Absolutely. Thank you 🙂 x
Sounds a really useful book and well written
Thanks for commenting x
What a fantastic idea. I love these kinds of books that help to explain difficult things to kids.
Yes it’s such a great idea. Thanks for commenting x
I truly believe that *anything* can be explained to a child with the help of a good book. Perhaps children will grasp depression better than adults since they see things in a very matter of fact way!
Would love to see your posts in the Practical Mondays Link Up, they will be a perfect addition 🙂
I agree. I love the simple way children see the world – without stigma and prejudice. Oooh – I haven’t heard of that one, I’ll check it out 🙂 Thanks for commenting x
What a great idea to help children! It’s great books can offer the support and resource on an issue that could otherwise be so sensitive to approach 🙂
Sounds like a really interesting book. It’s great when issues such as PND can be shared in a child friendly but realistic way. I’ll have to search for it at the library. #KCACOLS
Thanks for commenting x
Wow, this sounds like an amazing book. And I definitely think that I need to buy it to read to Little Miss H. I worry so much what she must think of me when I have a dark day. If anything can help explain my depression to my daughter then it is definitely worth investing in. Thanks for linking up to Sunday Stars. Hugs Lucy xxxx
I feel the same way about my son now he is more aware. Thankfully my anxious days are very few and far between now but we’re hoping for another baby so that could all change if I get PND again. A really useful book x Thanks for reading x
What a fantastic idea! I love the sound of this book and it sounds very good for kids to help them understand. Thanks so much for sharing with #KLTR Linky. Angela from Daysinbed
Thanks for having me! x
What a fantastic book. I really like the idea of a book that could help children to understand a little bit more about PND. It seems very interesting to focus this book about this subject, definitely unique. I’m happy to know that is could be a great help for any parent suffering from depression that would like their children to understand what is going on with them. Thanks so much for sharing this at #KCACOLS. I would love to see you again on Sunday! 🙂 x
I’ll be there! Thanks for replying 🙂
Wow this looks like a fabulous book and really touching too. And a great review from you too #kltr
Thanks, it’s such a fab idea x